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2017 Mar

Put an End to Bullying

Bullying is unwanted, aggressive behavior among school-aged children. It involves a real or perceived power imbalance, and the behavior is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time. Both kids who are bullied and kids who bully others may have serious, lasting problems.

Children with physical, developmental, intellectual, emotional, and sensory disabilities are more likely to be bullied than their peers. Any number of factors—physical vulnerability, social skill challenges, or intolerant environments—may increase their risk. Research suggests that some children with disabilities may bully others as well.             

Kids with special health needs, such as epilepsy or food allergies, may also be at higher risk of being bullied. For kids with special health needs, bullying can include making fun of kids because of their allergies or exposing them to the things they are allergic to. In these cases, bullying is not just serious; it can mean life or death.

A small but growing amount of research shows that:

• Children with attention deficit or hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) are more likely than other children to be bullied. They also are somewhat more likely than others to bully their peers.

• Children with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) are at increased risk of being bullied and left out by peers. In a study of 8-17-year-olds, researchers found that children with ASD were more than three times as likely to be bullied as their peers.

• Children with epilepsy are more likely to be bullied by peers, as are children with medical conditions that affect their appearance, such as cerebral palsy, muscular dystrophy, and spina bifida. These children frequently report being called names related to their disability.

• Children with hemiplagia (paralysis of one side of their body) are more likely than other children their age to be bullied and have fewer friends.

• Children who have diabetes and are dependent on insulin may be especially vulnerable to peer bullying.

• Children who stutter may be more likely to be bullied. In one study, 83 percent of adults who stammered as children said that they were teased or bullied; 71 percent of those who had been bullied said it happened at least once a week.    

• Children with learning disabilities (LD) are at a greater risk of being bullied. At least one study also has found that children with LD may also be more likely than other children to bully their peers.

EFFECTS OF BULLYING
Kids who are bullied are more likely to have:

• Depression and anxiety. Signs of these include increased feelings of sadness and loneliness, changes in sleep and eating patterns, and loss of interest in activities they used to enjoy. These issues may persist into adulthood.

• Health complaints.

• Decreased academic achievement, GPA, standardized test scores, and school participation. They are more likely to miss, skip, or drop out of school.

BULLYING & THE LAW
Bullying behavior can become “disability harassment,” which is prohibited under the Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990. According to the U.S. Department of Education, disability harassment is “intimidation or abusive behavior toward a student based on disability that creates a hostile environment by interfering with or denying a student’s participation in or receipt of benefits, services, or opportunities in the institution’s program.”

Disability harassment can take different forms including verbal harassment, physical threats, or threatening written statements. When a school learns that disability harassment may have occurred, the school must investigate the incident(s) promptly and respond appropriately. Disability harassment can occur in any location that is connected with school—classrooms, the cafeteria, hallways, the playground, athletic fields, or school buses. It also can occur during school-sponsored events.

WHAT PARENTS CAN DO
If you believe a child with special needs is being bullied:

• Be supportive of the child and encourage him or her to describe who was involved and how and where the bullying happened. Be sure to tell the child that it is not his or her fault and that nobody deserves to be bullied or harassed. Do not encourage the child to fight back. This may make the problem worse.

• Ask the child specific questions about his or her friendships. Be aware of signs of bullying, even if the child doesn’t call it that. Children with disabilities do not always realize they are being bullied. They may, for example, believe that they have a new friend although this “friend” is making fun of them.

• Talk with the child’s teacher immediately to see whether he or she can help resolve the problem.

• Put your concerns in writing and contact the principal if the bullying or harassment is severe or the teacher doesn’t fix the problem. Explain what happened in detail and ask for a prompt response. Keep a written record of all conversations and communications with the school.

• Ask the school district to convene a meeting of the Individualized Education Program (IEP) or the Section 504 teams. These groups ensure that the school district is meeting the needs of its students with disabilities. This meeting will allow parents to explain what has been happening and will let the team review the child’s IEP or 504 plans and make sure that the school is taking steps to stop the harassment. If your child needs counseling or other supportive services because of the harassment, discuss this with the team.

• Work with the school to help establish a system-wide bullying prevention program that includes support systems for bullied children. As the U.S. Department of Education recognizes, “creating a supportive school climate is the most important step in preventing harassment.”

• Explore whether the child may also be bullying other younger, weaker students at school. If so, his or her IEP may need to be modified to include help to change the aggressive behavior.

• Be persistent. Talk regularly with the child and with school staff to see whether the behavior has stopped.

ADDITIONAL SUPPORT
If a school district does not take reasonable, appropriate steps to end the bullying or harassment of a child with special needs, the district may be violating federal, state, and local laws.

For more information, contact:

• The U.S. Department of Education Office for Civil Rights - Call 800-421-3481 or visit www2.ed.gov/about/offices/list/ocr/complaintintro.html

• The U.S. Department of Education Office of Special Education Programs - Call 202-245-7468 or visit www.ed.gov/about/offices/list/osers/osep/index.html

• The U.S. Department of Justice Civil Rights Division-  Call 877-292-3804 or visit www.justice.gov/crt/complaint/#three

Source: www.stopbullying.org

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